Darren

Engels

About Me
I'm 51, 5'10", 170 lbs, blue eyes, blonde hair, and a bachelor's in music. I’m a songwriter, a storyteller, and someone who’s curious about everything. I like a good laugh, a deep conversation, and I’m not afraid to be a little silly when the mood strikes. Writing my first novel has tested my patience — but also shown me how determined I can be.

I’m a lifelong crossdresser — not for show, and not to attract attention. I rarely go out fully dressed — not because I don’t want to, but because the world doesn’t always feel welcoming. At home, I get to express a part of me that’s softer and more feminine, even if you might not always see that at first glance. For me, intimacy is about giving - there's something deeply feminine in making a man feel desired, appreciated, and completely satisfied. I'm not looking to reverse roles or take charge in the bedroom

I’m hoping to build something steady and meaningful with someone who sees me as I am.

I'm interested in a man between 36 and 60 who’s healthy, emotionally grounded, kind, loyal, and sharp-witted. I value emotional maturity, thoughtfulness, and someone who’s naturally protective in the best way. If you’re handy, reliable, and a little bit bold — even better.

I’m not looking to rush anything. Just hoping to meet someone honest and open-minded, who’s also ready to share something real.

I’m not open to anyone who smokes cigarettes (I used to and don’t want the temptation). Marijuana is fine. I’m also not looking to connect with anyone currently in a relationship or marriage.

Ram

Dun

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Blauw

Blank

Nooit getrouwd

Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis

Nee

Glimlach

Piercings, maar alleen in mijn oren

Donkerblond

Geen huisdieren

Nee

VWO

Voltijd

Recht

Family Support Specialist

Tussen de €45.000 en €60.000

Alleen

Is het lekker rustig

Ja - Maar zonder tabak

Ja - Als ik uitga

Cool

Anti-sociaal, Grappig, Flirterig, Vriendelijk, Opmerkzaam, Gereserveerd, Verlegen, Raar

Knutselen, Kamperen, Computers, Internet, Spellen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Films, Muziek, Lezen, Reizen, Tv

Met Vrienden zijn, Winkelen, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan, Me verkleden, Videospellen spelen, Een boek lezen, Relaxen, Thuis blijven, Films

Someplace where we could talk privately and get to know one another

Dating men. I have only ever dated women and it didn't go great.

Vriendelijk, Cool, Gek

Christelijk

Nooit

To die as an old woman. I don't consider myself transgendered but I think I'd rather be an old woman than an old man.

Camp, Slim, Droge Humor / Sarcastisch, Gek, Slapstick

Tekenfilms, Documentaires, Films, Herhalingen

Actie, Science Fiction, Komedie, Thriller

Klassiek, Country, Electonische Muziek , Folk, Jazz, Pop, Rock, Ik ben een muzikant

Autobiografie, Biografie, Comedy, Fictie, Geschiedenis, Muziek, Filosofie, Bovennatuurlijk, Science Fiction, Ik ben een schrijver

Two or more people having a deep, meaningful conversation

Empathie, Flirterig, Goed Uiterlijk, Goeie Vaardigheden, Humor, Intelligentie, Gevoeligheid, Bedachtzaamheid, Gevatheid

Intelligence, caring and a sense of safety.

Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid